Emotional intelligence you can measure and grow

Understand yourself. Handle the hard moments better.

Pick the relationship you want to work on, whether that's a partner, your kids or your team. Get a clear picture of your emotional skills, and practical coaching for real situations.

  • About 5 minutes
  • Tailored to your situation
  • Private by design

How you show up with Sam

Partner focus

Example
  • Knowing what you feel78
  • Staying steady54
  • Reading Sam84
  • Talking it through69
  • Staying invested72

Try this week

Agree on a phrase that means “I need 20 minutes”, and use it before you raise your voice.

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How it works

Measure, practise, see yourself grow

Built around how emotional skills actually develop.

  1. Step 1

    Choose your focus

    A partner, your kids, a colleague, your team, or yourself. Pick one or several.

  2. Step 2

    Take the adaptive assessment

    Real-life scenarios that adjust as you answer, and change every time you retake it.

  3. Step 3

    Get coached and grow

    Results in plain language, a practical tip each week, and an AI coach for the moments that count.

See it in action

Two minutes to see what EMO feels like

Real-life scenarios instead of abstract questions, and results written about the people in your life, not just theory.

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What we measure

Five skills that shape every relationship

Based on the widely used five-part model of emotional intelligence.

Self-Awareness

Recognizing your emotions, strengths, and how they shape behavior.

Self-Regulation

Managing impulses and adapting under pressure.

Empathy

Sensing what others feel and seeing situations from their perspective.

Social Skills

Building rapport, communicating, and navigating relationships.

Motivation

Sustained drive, optimism, and resilience toward goals.

Your focus

Work on what matters to you right now

Choose one or several. Each focus gets its own questions, results and coaching, written about that part of your life.

  • A romantic partner or spouse
  • My kids — parenting moments
  • A specific colleague or boss
  • My team — leadership in general
  • A family member
  • Conflict in general
  • Myself

For myself

  • A short adaptive assessment about the relationship you choose
  • An in-the-moment coach before a tense message or hard conversation
  • Anonymous 360 feedback from people who know you
  • Progress you can see over time
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For my organization

  • Assess your team's EQ to guide development plans
  • Structured candidate assessments during hiring
  • Share a link through email, your ATS or text
  • Scores and a recommendation in one dashboard
Set up your organization

Start with five honest minutes.

Free to start, no credit card. See where you stand, then get one practical thing to try this week.

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